should you dump a potential partner just bec of how he look?

I always envy those girls or guys who are really not that good looking but somehow they manage to have a hot, sexy looking partner, my friend call that true love, and I agree to that… I know it’s a cliche that we would always say that you don’t go for looks that in time it will wear out, but in reality somehow looks does matter...i mean you don't want to be seen by someone who looks like your grandfather or your household boy when your on a date right?

now a days, with all the media frenzy dictating us how we should look, its hard to find someone who will really get the time to know you and what kind of personality you have, in the bisexual world some guys would ask you out, but not for dinner date but mostly for sex, and when they hit it up and they happen to like each other then the getting to know part will come, i must admit that i met my ex bf like that but we never last, he dump me bec his parents would be in the country and he is afraid that he might get caught, i mean please how lame is that, he can just tell me that he don't want me rather that saying that lame excuse right? so anyway I'm not saying that all bi are like that, well most of them are...

a good friend of mine, bleach go out on dates almost every week, he told me that looks do matter to him for the reason that I mention above, he don’t want to be seen on public with a guy who moves and act like a girl or what we call effem, or a guy who is old enough to be his dad and young enough to be label as cradle snatcher, so i ask him so what are you looking for? and he said a buff guy, who look like a model and good in bed... i mean please were can he find a guy like that? and of-course a guy like that would think twice to go out with him there are thousand bi there who is more good looking than bleach...the only thing about him that i like is that he never looses hope to find his ideal partner, w/c as of now he haven't found....so he would spend his time looking for guys in g4m and manjam. bleach is the kind of guy who he like is dictated by media.

a bout me well I haven't found that someone who would really take me seriously, who would get to know me despite of how I look, I do admit that sometimes when I go on dates I would end up rejected or gain one more friend for that day…hay and they would all say the same, cut your hair and you'll find what your looking for...

maybe my partner is in france….

Should you go for looks?

I’m about to sleep, and I have this friend who I just talk to a while ago, well I met him here so I don’t know him that much…well as we go along he told me that I look good, and I don’t believe him coz its not true, somehow I look nice on my pictures coz I know my angle, just like every body here, ofcourse you will not post your worst pic here right? How would find your partner or how would someone ask you to have sex with them if you look like a wasted shit in your pic. So anyway I show him some pic (my recent and the old ones) he told me that I’m more nicer with short hair, I told him that I have my reason why I grow my hair, one of that is to find someone who would really appreciate how I look like having a long hair, coz in this world well most bi don’t really go for personality, most of them would go for sex then personality follows…w/c I think some how is wrong if you would want to find someone who will love you seriously…

So anyway I don’t like how are conversation end maybe I misunderstood him or he just have a bad sense of humor (the kind of humor that pisses ppol off), coz he ask me to watch this white guy in you tube who is speaking tagalong while cooking adobo, I told him that the chef is hot and then he told to “why dont watch that adobong manok again ?? hahaha !! maybe somebody who look like him will come your way... hahahaha !!! not bad huh !!!...its not funny esp. for a guy with low self esteem …then he said “just kidding. just wanna make u smile again..”

Just want you to know its not funny

Story of My Ex...

my friend bleach went out on a date yesterday with a guy who like him is also looking for a potential partner, so they decided to meet up feb 14 8am well as expected bleach waited for 1 hour and a half for his date, at that long period of time he almost decided to go home and just forget about the jerk...what happen was the guy his suppose to meet run out of battery so he decide to go to a friend and charge for a little while, but he text bleach that no matter what he will still go (so before leaving home make sure that your phone's battery is full...pls)...

so they meet up, eat and talk, but bleach know that there is no spark, thank god he make it a point not to invest to much time and effort for a guy w/c he is not sure, and thank god he did...

while having lunch terrence (the guy) is telling something about him self, bleach as a person is really not that talkative he is more of a listener, so they talk and suddenly terrence keep on talking about his ex, how they love each other, support each other, fight with each other, how his ex looks good dressing like a woman, how he wants to put some make up on his ex face, how he take 20 pills when he and his ex fight, and how his ex promise him that even he have a bf he will still steal him from the guy.

waw during that time bleach wanted to leave and just tell his date to go to his ex and fuck each other...so bec bleach cant stand it anymore he change the topic and ask..."so do you know your way home?"...

1. so the question is should you talk about your ex when on a date?

it only means one thing, the guy is not yet ready to have another relationship, he just misses his ex...

my poor friend...

Expectations

Expecataions can give us hope but it can also let us down...

Should you expect something from a friend?

Expecting the world to treat you fairly
because you are a good person
is a little like expecting the bull not to attack you
because you are a vegetarian

Unhappiness is best defined as the difference between our talents and our expectations.

Treat a man as he is, he will remain so. Treat a man the way he can be and ought to be, and he will become as he can be and should be."