should you dump a potential partner just bec of how he look?

I always envy those girls or guys who are really not that good looking but somehow they manage to have a hot, sexy looking partner, my friend call that true love, and I agree to that… I know it’s a cliche that we would always say that you don’t go for looks that in time it will wear out, but in reality somehow looks does matter...i mean you don't want to be seen by someone who looks like your grandfather or your household boy when your on a date right?

now a days, with all the media frenzy dictating us how we should look, its hard to find someone who will really get the time to know you and what kind of personality you have, in the bisexual world some guys would ask you out, but not for dinner date but mostly for sex, and when they hit it up and they happen to like each other then the getting to know part will come, i must admit that i met my ex bf like that but we never last, he dump me bec his parents would be in the country and he is afraid that he might get caught, i mean please how lame is that, he can just tell me that he don't want me rather that saying that lame excuse right? so anyway I'm not saying that all bi are like that, well most of them are...

a good friend of mine, bleach go out on dates almost every week, he told me that looks do matter to him for the reason that I mention above, he don’t want to be seen on public with a guy who moves and act like a girl or what we call effem, or a guy who is old enough to be his dad and young enough to be label as cradle snatcher, so i ask him so what are you looking for? and he said a buff guy, who look like a model and good in bed... i mean please were can he find a guy like that? and of-course a guy like that would think twice to go out with him there are thousand bi there who is more good looking than bleach...the only thing about him that i like is that he never looses hope to find his ideal partner, w/c as of now he haven't found....so he would spend his time looking for guys in g4m and manjam. bleach is the kind of guy who he like is dictated by media.

a bout me well I haven't found that someone who would really take me seriously, who would get to know me despite of how I look, I do admit that sometimes when I go on dates I would end up rejected or gain one more friend for that day…hay and they would all say the same, cut your hair and you'll find what your looking for...

maybe my partner is in france….